UNLOCK YOUR "X-FACTOR" AND BECOME UNSTOPPABLE IN EVERYTHING YOU DO
Finally Become the Person You Dream of Being
This new approach to personal development makes getting what you want — relationships, career success, influence, opportunities
— instantly easier.
(While feeling great and having more fun on the journey.)
Trusted by billionaires, olympic athletes and military elite special operators to take their work, love and life to the next level.
I’m skeptical of all the self-help stuff out there. The X-Factor Accelerator, however, delivers period. We see how the principles really work in practice. I’ve taken thousands of hours of training and nothing can compete. I recommend this to anyone who wants a leg-up on being more effective and influential.
JR - Former US Green Beret
UNLOCK YOUR "X-FACTOR" AND BECOME UNSTOPPABLE IN EVERYTHING YOU DO
Discover how to build the future you want — amazing relationships,
a fulfilling career and an extraordinary lifestyle — in as few as 8 weeks.
This new approach to personal development makes getting what you want — relationships, career success, influence, opportunities — instantly easier.
(While feeling great and having more fun on the journey.)
Trusted by billionaires, olympic athletes and military elite special operators to take their work, love and life to the next level.
I’m skeptical of all the self-help stuff out there. The X-Factor Accelerator, however, delivers period. We see how the principles really work in practice. I’ve taken thousands of hours of training and nothing can compete. I recommend this to anyone who wants a leg-up on being more effective and influential.
JR - Former US Green Beret
Think about where you face the most challenges in life.
Relationships… social situations… your career…
Now imagine you immediately have the ability to attract the right people and opportunities to eliminate these struggles forever.
You overcome your self-doubt.
Confidence skyrockets.
You unleash your hidden authority.
You suddenly have clarity on how to realize your full capabilities.
This is what happens when you unlock your “X-Factor.”
You become virtually unstoppable in anything you want to do in your life.
And this transformation happens fast.
Because it’s simply a matter of unlocking inner qualities that already exist within you.
You see, your X-Factor is a combination of traits that create your uniqueness.
It consists of three qualities — but naturally having all three is extremely rare.
Most people have only one or two.
We’ll explain the three qualities (and how to know which ones you have) in a moment.
But first, let us introduce ourselves…
“I’ve had so many positive things occur in my life since working with AJ & Johnny"
"Revenue from my Facebook ads agency has tripled. My social circle has exploded and I’ve even launched a brand new business on Amazon selling athletic products. One thing I have always wanted to do but never attempted, however, was playing in a band. In the next 12 months, I’m going to learn how to play guitar, form a band, and play a live show!”
- Matt Baran
This is what really accelerates your progress.
This is what really accelerates your progress.
The fact is, most people who struggle getting what they want do so because of past events in their life.
These experiences are what shape the three personal qualities we mentioned earlier.
Now, it’s important you understand that without all three working together, people often misinterpret your behaviors and actions.
You may have certain intentions, but they see something completely different.
How often does this happen to you?
Fortunately, when you unlock your X-Factor, this becomes a problem of the past.
Because the way people interact with you changes.
They see you differently.
You start noticing more people wanting to engage with you.
You also begin to understand just how many opportunities you were missing out on.
Relationships… new social circles... promotions… sales… leadership opportunities...
This occurs because you start viewing your daily interactions through a different lens.
We see this happen time and again with Art of Charm alumni worldwide.
It doesn’t matter if you’re introvert or extrovert, or feel like you’re somewhere in between.
When you have this knowledge, you instantly change the way you interact with people.
You begin communicating with confidence because you don’t worry about self-doubt or fear.
How to develop your X-Factor
The three qualities that make up your X-Factor include:
Charisma
Connection
Confidence
As mentioned earlier, having all three is rare.
For instance, people who are charming and confident often lack connection.
We call these individuals Lone Wolves.
They’re typically solopreneurs or have jobs where they can operate on their own, disconnected from others.
They thrive in these situations but, due to lack of connection, feel lonely and isolated at times.
People who have lots of friends and are confident tend to be people-pleasers or what we call Nice Guys.
They attract people due to their people-pleasing and confidence, but lack the charisma to make others feel good around them.
This makes them go out of their way to please others. But the lack of respect for their own boundaries results in a lack of respect for them.
And lastly are Mr. or Ms. Needy…
These people have connection and charisma but lack confidence.
As a result, they need reassurance through attention and approval-seeking behavior.
And by making all situations about themselves, the constant need for reassurance pushes others away.
The good news is, if you can identify with one of these archetypes, you already have two of the three qualities you need to unlock your X-Factor.
This is why people in our program make progress so quickly — often in just weeks.
So change happens really fast.
Grow your business.
We’ve had members such as Chris multiply his book of business in a matter of weeks.
Take the lead.
Jordan resolved a situation at work that he would have previously avoided that led to a promotion.
Meet new friends.
Colin moved to a new town and started hanging out with new friends within days.
Higher quality dating.
Luke is having a level of fun he’s never experienced because he’s making new connections in his dating life.
Deeper relationships.
Mark deepened his relationship with his wife using the power of emotional bids and the 5 levels of listening (lessons taught in XFA).
Eric is just about to host his first social event around his passion for sustainability.
The list can go on and on.
The bottom line is, after 15 years and 9,400+ Art of Charm alumni worldwide, we know how to get you results fast.
Grow your business.
We’ve had members such as Chris multiply his book of business in a matter of weeks.
Take the lead.
Jordan resolved a situation at work that he would have previously avoided that led to a promotion.
Meet new friends.
Colin moved to a new town and started hanging out with new friends within days.
Higher quality dating.
Luke is having a level of fun he’s never experienced because he’s making new connections in his dating life.
Deeper relationships.
Mark deepened his relationship with his wife using the power of emotional bids and the 5 levels of listening (lessons taught in XFA).
Pursue your passion.
Eric is just about to host his first social event around his passion for sustainability.
The list can go on and on.
The bottom line is, after 15 years and 9,000+ Art of Charm alumni worldwide, we know how to get you results fast.
Your journey begins with a quick application!
1. Click the "Apply Now" button
2. Fill out an application
3. Talk to an AOC expert
4. Unlock your X-Factor and master the skills of Connection,
Confidence, & Communication
5. Win at work, love, & life!
“After working with AOC, I barely recognize myself"
"In one year I got on good speaking terms with my dad, got a motorcycle license and ride daily, became a volunteer firefighter, and my health improved. All of these are things I’ve been trying to do for years. Big thanks to AJ, Johnny, and all of the AOC instructors for all your work."
- Jeff Mrozinsk
"I always knew there was more to life - I feel like I have superpowers"
David knew that being “just” a doctor wasn’t his final goal. He wanted to take on a leadership role, but there was one issue! He didn't have the tools to build key relationships and gain the influence needed to be a leader. After working with AOC, he learned how to raise his social capital and gain the trust of his colleagues. David was able to transform his colleagues into his biggest advocates when he was in line for a coveted fellowship!
- David Chan
If where you are now leaves you feeling unfulfilled, or if you’re just not satisfied with your relationships, career or life’s path…
We can turn this around for you fast.
This is especially the case if you feel like you’re meant for something bigger or just want to do something different with your life.
Now, of course, this doesn't mean we'll solve all your social challenges instantly.
That would be impossible.
It does mean, though, you can literally turn your situation around and put yourself on the proper path to getting what you want in just days.
We do this by addressing the limiting beliefs and behaviors that hinder your social performance.
You don’t have to become anyone different…
Try to be someone that you’re not.
Because we work with your existing qualities and — after identifying your limiting beliefs and behaviors — give you clear steps to move forward.
This enables you to ease the pressure you put on yourself.
So you can take action with confidence.
introducing
X-FACTOR ACCELERATOR™
This year long comprehensive program gives you all the personalized tools, resources and trainings you need to become your best self in as few as 8 weeks.
Everything you need to win at
WORK, LOVE, & LIFE…
introducing
X-FACTOR ACCELERATOR™
This year long comprehensive program gives you all the personalized tools, resources and trainings you need to become your best self in as few as 8 weeks.
Everything you need to win at
WORK, LOVE, & LIFE…
- 12-Month Access to the X-Factor Accelerator™ Program & Training
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2x weekly coaching calls with AJ & Johnny
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Weekly elite social skills implementation workshops
- Social Capital Networking Framework and Guide
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BONUS #1: FREE year of Unstoppable Mindset coaching
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BONUS #2: Weekend In-Person Mastermind Weekend
This isn’t basic “life coaching” or “performance 101”...
X-Factor Accelerator™ is the latest science-backed performance training and coaching, powered by over 15 years of experience and nearly 9,000 Art of Charm alumni worldwide.
You get the same proven approach we’ve used to personally help billionaires, olympic athletes, and military elite special operators take their work, love, and life to the next level.
This isn’t basic “life coaching” or “performance 101”...
X-Factor Accelerator™ is the latest science-backed performance training and coaching, powered by over 15 years of experience and nearly 9,000 Art of Charm alumni worldwide.
You get the same proven approach we’ve used to personally help billionaires, olympic athletes, and military elite special operators take their work, love, and life to the next level.
“The program has been helping me like crazy."
"I am having more and deeper social interactions. Talking to people I never thought I would be talking to. I feel that many of my relationships are improving. I hosted my first ever party and I was shocked by how many people showed up to party with me!
The lessons have been eye-openers for me and using what I have learned has made a big difference in all my conversations."
- Eric Douglas
The power is in the transformation!
Prior to XFA, our members told us they…
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Often had the "great idea" at work but never communicated it effectively
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Watched promotions go to the loudest person in the office rather than the most qualified
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Attended networking events and never created connections that led to real opportunities
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Found themselves on the first-date rollercoaster when all they wanted was a committed relationship
- Were in a rut in their current relationship with no idea of how to get out
- Were the friend who had to reach out and never received anything back
- Overanalyzed every situation
- Read every book, listened to every podcast, and chased the answer to what’s missing but never found it
Your journey begins with a quick application!
Click the "Apply Now" button
Fill out an application
Talk to an AOC Expert
Unlock your X-Factor and master the skills of Connection, Confidence, & Communication
Win at work, life, & love!
NOW, our XFA members & alumni tell us how they are winning at...
WORK
- Get noticed consistently and receive promotions they so richly deserve
- Make amazing first impressions, crush interviews, and land their dream jobs
- Went from hating sales to constantly attracting new prospects and closing career-changing deals
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Have a deeper understanding of their employees or team and are now influential leaders
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Run profitable side hustles that they previously avoided for years due to fear
LIFE
LOVE
- Communicate on screen and beyond, opening the door for more opportunities for high-quality romantic relationships
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Can identify attraction signals, body language, and nonverbal cues, so they understand what their crush, date, or partner really wants
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Found “the one,” got married, and started their families
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Deepened an existing relationship or marriage and recaptured those butterflies they thought were gone or didn’t realize were missing
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Became more present, emotionally available, and the kind of partner that their loved one needed them to be
“My confidence in social settings is sky high!"
"Before going through the AoC, my success with women and enjoyment on nights out were hit or miss. My confidence in social settings is sky high and women have taken notice. I was super anxious about joining the X-Factor Accelerator, but the awesome dudes at the AoC made something I was fearful of into something that was a ton of fun and easy to understand. The skills I learned are invaluable, and they help me in all areas of my life. The Coaches are effin dope and the alumni that I've met and/or talked to are awesome. Don't wait to sign up, just do it already :)"
- Andrew J.
We love this work because it changed our lives too!
AJ Harbinger
AJ was on the fast track, pursuing his Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan and working in the high pressure environment of a research lab. He would learn that performing well at your job isn’t always enough as he was passed over for opportunities and even having some of his proudest contributions overlooked. Something was missing.
His desire to figure it out was the inspiration for starting the Art of Charm Podcast over a decade ago. It was an opportunity to talk to world class experts and high achievers and learn how they found success in all areas of their lives. It was the scientist in him - have a problem, study it, and break down what’s going on.
He had no idea his “experiment” would lead him to hosting some of the most interesting people in the world from the late Kobe Bryant to Tim Ferris. Those conversations totally shifted his life and set him on a path to building a successful business, speaking to large audiences, and serving other self-described introverts.
The achievement he is most proud of though is getting the opportunity to coach 1000s of individuals on how to chase their own dreams and live extraordinary lives.
Johnny Dzubak
Johnny’s first love was rock ‘n roll. Being an international rockstar was always in the cards.
With music pumping through his veins, it’s no surprise he found himself touring the world and owning every stage he was on.
But when the music stopped though, something became abundantly clear to him. The life of a rockstar can sometimes be lonely and would leave him wanting more in his personal life. Connection and deeper relationships.
Stepping away from music, he dedicated himself to learning everything about what makes us tick and how relationships work. That’s when he found his second love, helping others develop meaningful relationships that make life worthwhile.
Johnny is one of the most sought after coaches, bringing the same creativity, energy, and artistry to his coaching from his rockstar days.
We love this work because it changed our lives too!
AJ Harbinger
AJ was on the fast track, pursuing his Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan and working in the high pressure environment of a research lab. He would learn that performing well at your job isn’t always enough as he was passed over for opportunities and even having some of his proudest contributions overlooked. Something was missing.
His desire to figure it out was the inspiration for starting the Art of Charm Podcast over a decade ago. It was an opportunity to talk to world class experts and high achievers and learn how they found success in all areas of their lives. It was the scientist in him - have a problem, study it, and break down what’s going on.
He had no idea his “experiment” would lead him to hosting some of the most interesting people in the world from the late Kobe Bryant to Tim Ferriss. Those conversations totally shifted his life and set him on a path to building a successful business, speaking to large audiences, and serving other self-described introverts.
The achievement he is most proud of is getting the opportunity to coach 1000s of individuals on how to chase their own dreams and live extraordinary lives.
Johnny Dzubak
Johnny’s first love was rock & roll. Being an international rockstar was always in the cards.
With music pumping through his veins, it’s no surprise he found himself touring the world and owning every stage he was on.
But when the music stopped, something became abundantly clear to him. The life of a rockstar can sometimes be lonely and would leave him wanting more in his personal life - connection and deeper relationships.
Stepping away from music, he dedicated himself to learning everything about what makes us tick and how relationships work. That’s when he found his second love, helping others develop meaningful relationships that make life worthwhile.
Johnny is one of the most sought after coaches, bringing the same creativity, energy, and artistry to his coaching from his rockstar days.
Are you ready to stop trying to figure it out alone and wasting time that you can never get back?
If so, here's what you'll get with X-Factor Accelerator™...
Access To Our Comprehensive Curriculum & Program
Our science-backed trainings are crafted to be easy to follow and implement immediately!
We break down and share how you can master the elite social skills of communication, confidence, and connection.
You gain a firm understanding of social dynamics and learn the right mindset and strategies needed to start making the big changes you want in your life!
Everything we teach you is guided by the principle that you already have everything you need inside you. We don’t want you to be anyone else.
Group Coaching Calls
Membership In Our Private
X-Factor Community
You are not alone! This private community is filled with amazing people who are on this journey with you and passionate about realizing their full potential.
They are a constant reminder that you have a network behind you on your path to greatness. The relationships you form in the community often last well past the program!
You build the elite skills needed for an extraordinary life...
(In as little as 8 weeks!!)
#1
Communicate With Power
Captivate any audience and create instant connections with the right people by supercharging your natural charisma.
#2
Become Unstoppable
Create a resilient mindset and skyrocket your confidence so you can overcome any obstacles and finally defeat self-doubt.
#3
Attract Extraordinary Opportunities
Rapidly expand your social circle by becoming an in-demand super connector that everyone wants to be around.
#4
Influence Effortlessly
Authentically influence, persuade and win people over by understanding and connecting with their key beliefs and values.
#5
Lead With High Value
Create high-value patterns and behaviors that cement your credibility and attract unshakable loyalty from others.
#6
Leverage Your Social Capital
Uncover a new way to network and build meaningful relationships that open up massive new opportunities in your career and business.
#7
Unlock Your X-Factor
Leave ordinary behind and live the life that legends are made of.
XFA isn't for everyone...
The program is specifically designed for:
- Professionals who are ready for a higher level of success in their career or business
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Those who want to stop playing games, find love, and build a meaningful relationship
- Those that are tired of settling or living life according to others’ expectations and ready to live the big life they deserve
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People who commit, are coachable, and follow through on their promises
If that sounds like you...
NOW IS YOUR TIME!
Maybe you’re someone who likes to see exactly what they're getting...
If that's you, take the XFA tour!
Or maybe you're wondering...
Will it be the right fit for me?
How long will it take to see results?
How long will it take to launch my group?
X-Factor Accelerator is designed for the driven introvert who is ready to take control of their life and stop settling.
Does that sound like you?
The program isn’t about remaking you into someone else but rather being the best authentic version of yourself.
So as long as you’re willing to commit to your success and take training and open feedback from expert coaches, this is exactly where you should be.
Even though you get access to the program for a full year, our members on average either reach their big goals or make big progress in less than 12 weeks.
Members often get that promotion, find love, or finally do that one big thing they’ve been holding back on within 3 months of starting the program.
A big part of what makes this possible is the powerful environment the private member community creates together. That high level of connection and motivation is really hard to find elsewhere.
What makes X-Factor Acceleratordifferent from other programs?
How much time do I have toput into getting results?
X-Factor Accelerator is designed for the driven introvert who is ready to take control of their life and stop settling.
Does that sound like you?
The program isn’t about remaking you into someone else but rather being the best authentic version of yourself.
So as long as you’re willing to commit to your success and take training and open feedback from expert coaches, this is exactly where you should be.
X-Factor Accelerator is rooted in science and a deep understanding of human behavior.
We’ve studied, lived it, and taught it - so we know the power it has.
Other programs will give you the information but our coaching is proactive and based around you achieving your biggest goals in life and work.
If that wasn’t enough, we support you in being accountable to what you want to achieve.
XFA isn’t just about learning something new, it’s about making real change and becoming who you want to be.
Do I really get access to you guys?
Can I get a look inside the program?
Yes!
You get access to Johnny, AJ, & Michael on the group coaching calls and in the community.
They answer your questions and coach you directly so you can make progress toward your specific goals fast.
Absolutely!
We've recorded a behind the scenes sneak-peek of the program... that way, you can know exactly what it looks like, what to expect, and what you're getting when you join!
You can watch it by clicking here.
Or maybe you're wondering...
Will it be the right fit for me?
X-Factor Accelerator is designed for the driven introvert who is ready to take control of their life and stop settling.
Does that sound like you?
The program isn’t about remaking you into someone else but rather being the best authentic version of yourself.
So as long as you’re willing to commit to your success and take training and open feedback from expert coaches, this is exactly where you should be.
What makes X-Factor Accelerator different from other programs?
X-Factor Accelerator is rooted in science and a deep understanding of human behavior.
We’ve studied, lived it, and taught it - so we know the power it has.
Other programs will give you the information but our coaching is proactive and based around you achieving your biggest goals in life and work.
If that wasn’t enough, we support you in being accountable to what you want to achieve.
XFA isn’t just about learning something new, it’s about making real change and becoming who you want to be.
How long will it take to see results?
Even though you get access to the program for a full year (yes, you get us for that long!), our members on average either reach their big goals or make big progress in less than 12 weeks.
Members often get that promotion, find love, or finally do that one big thing they’ve been holding back on within 3 months of starting the program.
A big part of what makes this possible is the powerful environment the private member community creates together. That high level of connection and motivation is really hard to find elsewhere.
Do I really get access to you guys?
Yes!
You get access to Johnny, AJ, & Michael on the group coaching calls and in the community.
They answer your questions and coach you directly so you can make progress toward your specific goals fast.
How much time do I have to put into getting results?
We totally get it, a lot of our members are professionals with demanding careers and family lives.
That’s why we recommend setting 2-3 hours per week, at least for the first few weeks, for you to make real progress.
And don’t worry about missing anything… we record all the coaching calls and make them available to you along with answering any questions in our online community.
This flexibility allows even our busiest members to never miss out on all the growth opportunities provided in the program.
Can I get a look inside the program?
Absolutely!
We've recorded a behind the scenes sneak-peek of the program... that way, you can know exactly what it looks like, what to expect, and what you're getting when you join!
You can watch it by clicking here.
Will it be the right fit for me?
How long will it take to see results?
What makes X-Factor Acceleratordifferent from other programs?
How much time do I have toput into getting results?
Do I really get access to you guys?
Can I get a look inside the program?
Are you ready to take your life to the next level?
Fill out an application, and talk to an Art of Charm coach
to explore if X-Factor Accelerator is right for you.
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